Why people fall out of love after marriage. Relationship
@nabeela_rasheed
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Love relationships is something that we see in our day to day lives between our parents, friends and ourselves too. We also sometimes see relationships that are so admirable and feel like having a similar deep relation, I have very many such relations which I thought would last for ever but to everyone’s surprise that might fail. Failing relations are so usual in early adulthood but there some relations that have survived long times and struggles and finally reached this blooming stage of marriage and everything is so happy and calm but suddenly we hear that they are getting a divorce which shocks you because you have known both of them personally and together they always seemed like they were meant to be but it just didn’t. This put me in a stage where I started thinking why people fall out of love after marriage and the reasons are many. When in a love relationship even though we may have fights if we love each other we have this fear of loosing the partner because we haven't tied any knot and the other person can walk away any time but after marriage this invisible knot ties the relation up giving the couple a sense of relief that now they can take each other for granted because the other person can’t easily walk away. Similarly after marriage your love is always with you and we kind of stop noticing them and give no importance for they always are with us. Before marriage our partner is away from us and love is always tested and we know the value of they being with us and beauty of the times when we are together. The things like jealousy and possessiveness which was cut when we were in a relationship becomes a serious issue when it is present in our daily life, each one of the couple have their own career and have to mingle with many people that the other person doesn’t know but when our partner starts pestering us with their jealousy it almost becomes hateful to us even to share things that bother us from the work place. If before marriage our main aim was to get together with our partner, after marriage our aims change and we focus on other things like work, kids and finance so that we forget to make time for our love. We have many expectations and dreams when it come to our partner and the life we want with them and expect them to act according to what we want but we should also realize that they also have their own expectations from you too, and when it comes to life it is never dreamy and fantasy like no one can meet other persons expectations so this also becomes a problem after marriage. As time go by both husband and wife forgets to be kind to each other and show their love because we think that they already know that but what we should realize is that we should always be kind and express our love because our partners need reassurance that we love them. Yes life can be hard, but we can make it dreamy through acceptance and understanding and perseverance. It requires our efforts for relationship to live on, so never take it for granted.


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