Can anyone help me in finding out why does it prick people soo much when we finally try to move on? Like, how many guts do people have to demotivate others like emotional blackmail types and bring down us back again to the road where we are miserable like hell. Full day, full time when we think of them or try to express ourselves by showing care, love and affection or how they mean to us; that time they just want to get rid of us. We totally do understand that we need to stop caring but we do care, we do show affection because that's what actually we are. We might lack those 100's of good manners which they expect from us but we surely have that one good quality of being there for them. The one good thing humans can do is make the people around them feel special in any way; it doesn't matter even if it's a short simple . We do be there for them whenever they want us or even before it cli*ks them that they want us to support them. We try every possible way we can do without thinking once about ourselves or anything and all they want is to get rid off it, don't' interfere in it but later they can blame us too for that one thing for the wh*le life. This too we can accept, this too we can bear but when we decide to move on on, or ignore things which make us miserable by finally just thinking for ourselves, people enter back and are all ready to bring us back to those paths. But do you know why we feel irritated in these situations? It's because it's like a test for us which God has for us to see are we really strong enough!