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@Srushtu
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yesterday
Moving on or not moving on? I don't know!

Can anyone help me in finding out why does it prick people soo much when we finally try to move on? Like, how many guts do people have to demotivate others like emotional blackmail types and bring down us back again to the road where we are miserable like hell. Full day, full time when we think of them or try to express ourselves by showing care, love and affection or how they mean to us; that time they just want to get rid of us. We totally do understand that we need to stop caring but we do care, we do show affection because that's what actually we are. We might lack those 100's of good manners which they expect from us but we surely have that one good quality of being there for them. The one good thing humans can do is make the people around them feel special in any way; it doesn't matter even if it's a short simple . We do be there for them whenever they want us or even before it cli*ks them that they want us to support them. We try every possible way we can do without thinking once about ourselves or anything and all they want is to get rid off it, don't' interfere in it but later they can blame us too for that one thing for the wh*le life. This too we can accept, this too we can bear but when we decide to move on on, or ignore things which make us miserable by finally just thinking for ourselves, people enter back and are all ready to bring us back to those paths. But do you know why we feel irritated in these situations? It's because it's like a test for us which God has for us to see are we really strong enough!

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@Srushtu
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Calm
a week ago
I still feel that the world is too small or short.

Okay this may seem a little senseless or illogical or comedy (whatever it may sound to you after reading it). But I always feel that the wh*le world consists of the people i meet or the city I stay in. I definitely know that there are tons of cities and states around us and one wh*le universe but I always tend to forget to count that are billions of people staying on this planet and this word is huge. Like, every time when I travel or even in college when I see 1000's of people I feel that is the only limit of people existing. It may seem weird but I have feel we have built this small for ourselves in this huge universe. But when I come back on scrolling Instagr*m I can probably see how was the world is. People will always be there with but the same people won't be there always by our side. This is the first step which makes us strong and also makes us realize we have to get out our comfort zone to establish our dreams. How much ever we wish or we want we cannot just sit at one place and rot our brain. We need to explore and make ourselves capable of all things which we feel we cant solve. So just a small reminder for all of us- that yes, we need to get out of the comfort zone and work to0 much

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@Srushtu
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3 weeks ago
Mental health has been surely affected in this pandemic

Do you also think the same guys? That there some sort of affect on our mental health due to this lockdown or pandemic? Have you noticed any changes (positive or negative) in yourself personally? I have noticed a few changes in myself. Firstly, I was super excited when they had announced that there will be no more colleges until April end. For me it was more like a big long break after 12th boards. As I was going through some issues already so I was contented to be home and stay in pajamas. But later, slowly slowly, it started going in a different way; where it made all of us lazy and a little bit impatient lately in these 2 months. It also gave us 'n' number of food cravings and making us all feel that we are pregnant by having all sorts of food swings and made us want desperately to go out on a beach for a long vacation with no more phone and workloads. I have noticed the percentage of mental health was normally in first few weeks but later it started increasing more as we humans are not used to staying wh*le day in one place as if we are caged.

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@Srushtu
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3 weeks ago
You either become silent or rude!

When life knocks you with numerous unbearable situations and you finally after so much of hush-bush, manage to deal with it , you finally start understanding about what step should be taken next. It's always said that -breakdowns or life teaching situations makes you a lot more like a introvert. Has anyone been through this or seen this around yourself? This one makes you confused and pissed and dumb like hell. You just don't know how to and where to react. You totally understand all the situations going around but all you fell is miserable, wasted and unwanted because you just don't know how to react. You start overthinking of unwanted 1000 barriers like if I say this then they will fight or they don't like this and etc., etc. And that's where you start preparing yourself where you just want to shut your mouth and not react to any nonsense going around.
Why did I mention about being rude in the topic? It's actually not like a option, it's more like - first in frustration you just bluff out all things you have going in your mind without thinking of anything and if then somewhere when it starts messing up everything more and more, you start regretting it later and then you automatically come on to the decision of being silent and just ignoring about what people say behind your back. So, lastly after jumbling upon everything you finally choose to be silent.

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@Srushtu
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a month ago
Devdutt Padikkal the current new celebrity crush!

Its like OH MY GOD! I really don't know from where to start and how to start. Okay so, watching cricket has always been fun since many years (like depending on mood) and its totally nothing like I have started watching because I have a crush on some player or so. I have always been a ok-ok fan of cricket and have always supported MI (Mumbai Indians) and I still do support. But since the time I have seen Dev onscreen, it had just brought like a little smile on my face. I really dint knew him before but now I have started gaining a huge fan crush on him and I just cant stop looking at his pictures. Is there anyone out there who also has that little cute fan crush on him? After looking at him, it just reminds me of someone pretty close to me and brings like a little tear in my eye always. It just feels so good after seeing all his picture. But now the actual problem is that I have now 2 teams to support in IPL i.e. Mumbai Indians and Royal Challengers Bangalore and I'm pretty nervous about what will happen where they will have match together and I will be super confused. By the way, super excited for tomorrow's RCB match and to cheer for DEV!

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@Srushtu
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2 months ago
Few life facts that are true noticed around me.

After looking all over to so many different relationships around me- I still feel there are some people who believe in comfort and being yourself then anything else. A few sentences i an*lysed after gazing around-
I want someone who understands me, I don't need someone who just tells that I understand but actually doesn't. I want someone who appreciates me, I don't need someone who ignores my efforts.I want someone who is cranky as well as understanding, I don't need someone who tells me to act emotionless and expressionless in front of everyone. I want someone who accepts me as I am, I don't need someone who asks me to change bcz he can't understand. I want someone who makes efforts always, I don't need someone who just tries once. I want someone who actually knows my worth and is afraid of losing me no matter how hard it's on us bcz I don't need someone who treats me as an option. I want someone who knows his mistake and accepts it's bcz I don't want someone who ignores it and I have to be sorry for what he has done. I want someone who shouts at me when I mess it when I go wrong and who makes it's imp to sit down and solve bcz I don't need someone who just ignores solving. I want someone who cares and if is not there with me at that moment but makes sure that i know that person is there always praying for me bcz I don't need a person who is enjoying when he is knows I'm sobbing hard in a corner for him.
I want a person who doesn't feels ashamed to accept me may it be private also but I want someone who accepts me with pride bcz I don't need someone who ignores me bcz I care.
I'm not a girl/boy who believes in expensive gifts because I'm a normal girl/boy for whom expensive things are the things mentioned above.

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@Srushtu
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2 months ago
The past 9 months taught me to be myself!

It is right said that we you have heartbreak's or when you get hurt, you learn a lot from that pain. You may cry 1-2 months on that over and over like why did it happen, its wrong,etc. But when you start going back slowly slowly to your space, you start seeing differently. You stop finding excuses of running away and start finding solutions. I have cried and stressed out over things always and it has somewhere affected my health but I have always tried to control it and move on from it. But these past 9 months have really been hard on me. I suffered, cried, stressed out, affected my mental and physical health but never actually moved on. Every morning i have a order ready for myself that "I wont think of the things that hurt me. I'm starting fresh from today". It was only till evenings. As nights moved in, I sobbed to sleep peacefully each night and I was totally okay with all this. But, over days I have realized that life and time keeps moving on and it doesn't waits for anyone, so I guess even we all should try to move on with whatever life has for us. We will break, sob, mess up but we need to keep moving on and learning on with whatever life has to teach us!

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@Srushtu
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2 months ago
Sometimes you just cant hold onto everything at the same time.

Time never waits for anyone or everyone. It never pauses for any situation to get solved or for any person so that fix up things or be there on time. It's a universal thing and we all know- That we can hold onto many things at the same point. We all know this but we fail to apply it in or lives and still keep doing things repeatedly where we can can hold onto everything. Like it was said in Yeh Jawani Hai Deewani movie- "Ki kitna bhi try karo, humesha kuch na kuch ch*tta hi jata hai. Toh jaha ho vaha ka maja lo." When I first heard it, I never understood its actually meaning but when continuously life started thrown me at situations where I could not hold onto everything, I actually understood the meaning of those words. Like how much ever you try to keep things okay or chilled or fair between anyone or anything, you cant please everyone at the same times. So just as I always tell "Just let it go". Do what makes happy and not what makes other's happy.

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@Srushtu
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2 months ago
Anxiety has started tying me up in all ways!

There might be no stress killing me or panic attacks but have you felt all tied up in situations where you just feel low and feel lethargic about everything around? Recently, from past a week or so, I just feel anxious and lethargic of everything around me. All I feel to do is cuddle up in bed all day with a big tub of ice cream or pastries to lower down my anxiety. I might have experienced it every time but thus time its controlling me and my actions. Its just like "I'm done " with not just one single thing but with everything. I surely know i will cope up and be back with a bang but for now all i just need is a pause to breathe without stress of any sort of thing. If you also going through this its okay, just let pass this moments but dont let them control you. Its okay to feel useless for some time but held your guard up before its too late.

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@Srushtu
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2 months ago
Mental health matters more than anything else!

Busy schedules, frustrated minds and lethargic days have become our best friends during this lockdown. These things have never failed to leave our side no matter what. We all already have more or the other pressure on our mind always but these 6 months have become more rough for our mental health. This all has taken place as there has now become a lack of physical exercises, traveling, communication and many more activities that would take place on normal days. This had caused more pressure for us mentally. Sitting in one room and following the same routine each and every day has resulted in less mental activities which tends us to laze around the wh*le day and has also made us apathetic. On a serious note, we really need to take more look towards our mental health and pamper ourselves like a baby to keep it on a right track because if we fail to do so it really makes us a person which we ain't. It's important to keep it best so that everything around goes with ease. We need to start practicing meditation, yoga, dance etc many other activities which will keep us fresh, calm and enthusiastic always. This will eventually reduce many negative problems which we may have. Hence we really need to pamper our mental health always.

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
Grateful for the first 2 months of 2020

Like as we all thought, 2020 started with a bang! It was more like a dr*matic year with some really close moments with my special one's that I'll cherish always and had some moments which rifted me apart by some special one's. It was a series of fun I had and I was glad and lucky enough to explore some very interesting places in those 2 months which I would never do in a wh*le year. I'm so happy that I was able to cover the 2 most exciting and beautiful places I had on my bucket list i.e. Pondicherry and Guhagar. I was able to spend time with my friends which we weren't able to from the past 1 year. These things taught me that it is so important to live in the present and also to make the most use of time. We never know what will happen next and I had no inclination about the lock down but I'm so grateful that I explored many things. You realize it later that the appropriate use of time is must.
Not only grateful for those 2 months because I could wander around in different places but also for these months of staying home and taking a break which I really needed to sober down the situation. Is anyone else grateful for 2020 in some or the other way?

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
Making a habit of talking to myself daily!

We live in the 21st century where everyone is busy with their schools,jobs, colleges. Even if lock down is going on we are still busy as we used to be other days. The remaining time we try to spend it with family or talk with our friends, but we always forget to give some share of time to ourselves. Like for eg- when we are low or happy, we always want to share it with our friends or people we are comfortable with. But in that list we forget ourselves. Why can't we share it with ourselves also? Talking with friends is totally good, we need to share our feelings but side by side why can't we share or talk it out to ourselves also? We can try to speak it out loudly, freely with some dr*ma like we want to us because while speaking to others we still somewhere have to feel "what will people think". We are still not out of our comfort zone while talking to them. We may say everything freely but there is always one or two points which will always be left. We people need some dr*ma or emotions when we are letting it out and with others it's just sort of sober. Considering all this, why can't we make a priority to talk to ourselves daily about whatever happens which will be genuine, transparent with some dr*ma. This will also automatically lead to making ourselves our self priority.

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
You won't lose your dignity if you have the tendency to cry always!

“My God! She is crying again”, “Don't cry, you're just hurting yourself”,etc etc. This is one side of the crying story and the other one is “Why shouldn't I cry? Just because people will think I'm not in their class?”.
Okay so me and one of my friends are too sensitive and emotional and for us it's like a blessing because we are given that little out of the box quality. We are way too simple like if we are hurt we cry it out because for us it's like being ourselves, like we feel fresh and comfortable. But we have always heard the above statements or questions whenever we cry. On the face we react like “okay” to the people but behind the scenes we are far too in some other way of thinking. When you feel the best when you cry then why shouldn't we? Because people will take us in a negative way? But even if we don't they will take us. That no one says because it's not their league. You do whatever people will talk,then why just we don't be ourselves and today what makes us comfortable? Like if you feel to cry, cry let it out how much ever you want to but after that make sure you pamper yourself and take care of yourself. Every situation has an 'n’ number of perspectives and probabilities and you can't accomplish everything. It's nothing like you will lose your dignity. If being strong is one of the best qualities then even crying and letting it go is!
It's a diverse world and everyone's thoughts are different.

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
Forgot about my strengths due to overdose of weaknesses!

So today in a daily college session, we were asked about our strengths and weaknesses. A simple question to be heard but the most confusing one to answer. My classmates we're so quick to answer it but I was still stuck on what my strengths were. I have 'n’ a number of weaknesses but I couldn't not recollect a single strength. Can any one of you understand what this means? This basically shows that we are so bagged and mingled with over thinking, negativity that we often forget to leave behind or ignore what is actually worth us. Weaknesses and negativity become so close to us that we forget we have strengths too. Just a daily reminder, we can surely try to change and work on our weaknesses but also don't forget to cherish the good things or good qualities which life has given us. Fight everyday with yourself till your brain cli*ks on the positive option first. Make yourself fresh and calm not only physically but mentally too. And a small incident or question can teach you a lot.

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@Srushtu
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Frustrated
3 months ago
Why so confused brother/sister?

There is one definite person in our surroundings who is always unpredictable. They are unpredictable just like weather conditions who themselves don't know what they will do next. Sometimes they are like boiling temperature while other times they're way too friendly. They themselves don't know how they are acting socially. With these types of people we don't understand how to be with them personally because when we act friendly they respond rudely and when we act cold they are like chill bro. We always have to think more than twice about how we should talk and behave with them and more importantly we are worried about how they will respond towards us. At one point these people are so damn excited that they take all the decisions without discussing in the group and also start the preparation. But after some time they start giving excuses like “I'm not in the mood”, “I'm not interested”, “Let's do later”, etc. It's like they start everything, get mad behind people to be involved in that and then they themselves want to quit it. And after all this when we want to maturely try taking decisions of further carrying it or by quitting it, these people are like we never said so. These types of excuses might be accepted in an unofficial project but it will always fail to be accepted in an official project!

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
Don't hesi*ate. Just go for it!

“If it's for good then go for it” does not have to necessarily cli*k your brain only when you have a superb or successful situation with you. It can also cli*k your brain when there are most difficult challenges to face and it is absolutely okay if it does cli*k. We humans have a tendency of taking quick decisions when we know the result is positive but when we know the process and the outcome is going to be tough we hesi*ate or just skip it. In these situations we firstly feel that trying to run or take a break will totally work but actually it's only a break after that it gets back even more messier than earlier. While taking decisions in challenging situations you need to be firm on it. It will break you and prick your heart and mind every single day but you won't regret it. It may be messier at that point but later it may resolve. Before taking the decision think 1000 times but when you get the answer that you should go for it then don't hesi*ate. I know some here we still feel to hold on but always remember don't choose the easy path. When we choose the easy one and try to avoid it, it may seem perfect for now but later when it hits you back it's even worse. But if you choose and go through the tougher path you will surely find success in the end. It's just as simple as “patience is bitter but its fruit is sweet”. Even if you try and don't succeed it's totally fine because failure is also the step towards success. So just go for it and don't hesi*ate!

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
So easy to say, too hard to do!

Thousands of emotions to express, millions of words to be heard, tons of facial expressions to be seen and still it's always said to- just let it go and move on. It's said so casually and simply but actually "let it go and move on" has really many hardships. It may not be seen virtually sometimes but it's impact hits like a rock. I have heard more than 1000 let go and move on in my life but have not yet applied in real life. I'm broken, I'm done, I'm numb but still every time I have holded it back tightly like it's my 'better half’. It's holding me back because those things mean a lot, in those moments I have lived myself, I have given my heart out. It may be rifting me apart mentally and emotionally everyday but there is always a one beat of heart which says- Don't. Just wait and have patience. Your brain really accepts it fast but your heart gives you a chance to try it again. You can physc your brain to move on but you can't physc your heart. Holding back is giving a little bit of yourself to someone unknowingly. I am the most short tempered and curious person but when it's holding on I appreciate myself as if I have done a PhD in that. It seriously does hurt a lot. My words may not give justice to what I mean by hurt but it surely screws you a lot. There are sleepless nights, breath choked cries, mental trauma, anxiety everything which keeps you messed. Every night I promise myself I will try to move on but it just doesn't happen. I honestly know what all this can lead to. It surely causes a lot of damage. But why can't we embrace it and live it the way we want to. I am not saying that the person who is telling me to move on is wrong but has he/she been in my place? Have they put themselves in our shoes? They tell us for our own good so that we become more emotionally stable but why can't we be ourselves? IT IS TOUGH! And the worst thing is, people only say for a few days and listen to us but after some days when we tell them that we are feeling low then we have to hear that we say the same thing again and again but no one understands that we say it again and again because we go through the same feeling again and again. I just want to let all the people around like me know that it is really okay.
It's okay to not be okay!

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
Mood swings will never leave your side through thick and thin.

I want to flee. I want to have a break. I want to go for a holiday at a beach. I want to eat street food. I want to move on. I want to cry my heart out. I want to stop giving so much of me. I want to laugh. I want to fly. I want to wander. I want to dance. I want to dance.
What is this? Right? This is confusing right? These are my mood swings who never ever leave me alone. Yes I know everyone thinks what a disaster this is. Right. Yes they are disasters sometimes. Even I'm someone who just can't control emotions, who is not mature enough but all this results somewhere like positivity in me. It's somewhere like, “Go through it, feel it and then let it go.” Embrace your flaws and work on it too. After a lesson or mistake, don't ever feel that this was the last time again it won't happen because it's a long journey and there will be many flaws which you will have to embrace and fight for it always. It is said that mood swings make you hell. It's okay but deep down it makes you strong too and having those is fine totally fine. Just fine.
Be calm and be you!
Feel it and let it go!

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
Did you ever realize that -”You motivate yourself?”

I was just dancing around some days ago when this thought crossed my mind. There are many harsh points in everyone's life but at the end it's all about; what did you learn from that. On most of the common days when I'm in a very sober mood I keep joking, facing problems is easy to make through it but when we actually go into that situation we realize it's true meaning and more importantly we realize how we should handle and how difficult it's impact is. You are constantly stuck between “I won't be able to go through more”, “I wanna quit”, “Will I be able to get over this” and the overthinking reaches its peak. The next morning when this all gets over like every thought, your mental health becomes stable, did you even once feel that this makes you strong? I guess mostly no because even I didn't. When I just take a quick flashback I realized that yes when I was strong in my crucial and tricky years (teenager) then why can't I be now? I may not be mature but at least I have gained some learning from it. We never realize or feel but we do motivate ourselves in many ways!

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
The desire to quit “what people think”!

There is always a time where we state “I want to do this but what will people think after the result?” Every time I get to do something the first thought comes about “what people will think”. But the actual fact is; whatever you do, people will always have something to say. People have the freedom so they will say. I often come to the decision about quitting this decision but my heart sometimes just doesn't give me the green signal. I always wish to talk to people about it and help them throughout this by giving so and so instructions but a saying always holds me back which is “ you can't really help or influence or make them believe about what your experience was until and unless you have actually been through it. You give your statement full justice only when you have preached it personally.” The inner me is willing to not care on what people say and focus on what I actually want. Trying and waiting to grab that 'ray of hope’ and finally be capable of living independently not only in financial matters but also mentally and emotionally.

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@Srushtu
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Frustrated
3 months ago
The pain and joy of boredom in these days is different

Do you also feel the same after a span of time we you are just done? Done of all sort of things around you. There is a mixed feeling meetings scheduled in these particular days that target to irritate you the most and the answer for them is only and only sleep. Sleep is one such thing which overtakes the dozens of workload left. It stresses you so much that all you do is doze. The most important point during this is that if you fail to get a proper sleep, each and everything right from getting up to behavior is affected. Like sometimes I feel- if you don't sleep properly it affects but even if you sleep properly it affects. So much confusion. Does any feel the same?

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3 months ago
Patience is a practice in trust and everything

The meaning of the word patience for me is “सबर का फल मीठा होता है”. Internationally the meaning is something else but since childhood for me it's that phrase. I may not remember getting any “फल” after showing patience throughout something but it at least keeps encouraging me that yes something good may happen someday to me in future. The strangest thing I have seen in me and my few close friends is that, we become so so so patient when it comes to career, college, friends, emotions, dr*ma, etc but as soon as it comes on us - 10 days we are as strict at CBI with ourselves but suddenly when things don't work within us we lose our nerve to “not happening”. This keeps on going every time but still believing in that phrase and pushing myself to be strong and on my nerves strictly for a better/good result ahead.

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@Srushtu
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Calm
3 months ago
A quick throwback to these 5 months of lockdown.

When I first heard about lock down, I almost got a panic attack and straight went to a zone called “this is going to be a mess”. I was frustrated as well as in a big dilemma: how will I stay the wh*le day in these four rooms without friends, college, travelling and street food. After lurking around for 2 days seeing my parents do everything in their 50’s, I somehow made myself responsible and started helping and making those day’s fun. The sessions of doing daily chores started being the most fun sessions of life. It may be a hard year but family time was the best part of this lock down. Danced, baked, got pissed, got some terrific news but made a swift move from this phase. Every night I was like “why am I locked like this? I need air” and all but I did learn how to self entertain and become independent by taking up some good steps. It may be a waste year but we learnt something best out of it.

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3 months ago
These nights totally make it hard on us which eventually breaks us down

Every morning we get up, we start our day with fresh and positive mind and head off to our respective work. We talk, we meet, we eat, we travel, we work, etc etc. Everything goes tip-top and perfect just as we want it. We come home happily and as soon as we lay on our bed to sleep after a hectic day, suddenly out of no where we just remember that one particular person or thing and literally start crying like a small kid. No matter how much we try to ignore these things wh*le day but the night makes it successful that yes we should think about it. You finally just give up and go back to the world which reminds you of so much. These nights just get so hard on you that you just get driven by that. There are so many secrets we might have spoken to those wet pillows.
#silencespeakssomuch#tearsspeaksomuch#numb

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
We often forget to care for ourselves!

Care- A human behavior or want which every human being craves for. No matter how strong you are mentally or emotionally, there is one point in everyone's life where we break down and all we want is a tight hug from our most loved person. Even if sometimes we are not at a very good phase of life, we tend not to pay attention towards ourselves and always think about other's. There is always a constant thought lingering in mind that "are they fine? Are they doing well?" etc,etc. It's not a big thing to worry about. It's normal behavior because we care and want our loved one's to be safe. It,s totally okay if we have this caring behavior in us and its absolutely not out of trend behavior to worry about what people around of us will say. If you care, you care. You just don't need to constantly think over it what people will say. Yes, sometimes further things might change, situations do change and it takes time to accept things. Sometimes we may run out of patience also. It's okay. But even you give so much of yourself to others, give a bit to yourself also!

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@Srushtu
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3 months ago
"Control your emotions before they start controlling you."

Emotions-. A single word but has a wh*le world inside. For some it may be just a word but for some it can be very personal.
Emotions are strong as well as fragile. They can either make you mentally strong or can control you. It's upon you how you let them control you? Either in a positive way or in a negative way. They are essential and it's absolutely okay also to be emotional but they must not destroy you. You must know when to show them and obviously, it does not happen in a day. But you can practice to control them daily and one day you will see that you have become an emotionally strong person. Have patience but try to work on them daily because this is also a part of self care, right?
"Control your emotions before they start controlling you."

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3 months ago
God is with us through thick and thin.

“जय देव जय देव, जय मंगल मूर्ति
दर्शनमात्रे मनःकमाना पूर्ति
जय देव जय देव”
“ Ga*es* Chaturthi”-A joyous spiritual day filled with immense love for Lo*d Shri Ga**sha is celebrated throughout the country! Since childhood we all have seen his animated movies, heard and read stories, celebrating the festival with full enthusiasm,etc we all have immense love for our favorite 'Gannu Bappa’. He has been our for us like our role model and very wait for this day throughout the year just for those sweet, tempting “मोडक “.
May Gannu bappa shower all his blessings and wisdom to everyone!

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Frustrated
3 months ago
Must experience the dr*ma of career in every household!

So what's next? CA? Law? CS?.etc, etc. And there it is, may it be after 12th or after graduation, family should tell at least once like a tradition “ इसके बाद क्या?” Family pressure and confusion of what to do is one side and “ do you want to waste life like this only” dialogue on the other side. Pressure is 'Do this’ and confusion is 'This or That’.
But in the end all you just need to be patient, give time to yourself and take appropriate decisions.

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Relationship Myself
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Calm
3 months ago
Life is incomplete without love chapter!

Too many thoughts, too many emotions and too much to say, too much to miss, too much to care, and finally too much love! Every love story has something to say! Some bring smile, some bring tears, some bring guilt while some stay close to heart! But have your ever had something where you have felt everything? Yes, it's rightly said everytime love doesn't mean having cheesy talks or going on romantic dates or fighting or staying close. Sometimes it's just about sacrificing. Sacrificing your love to not hurt them. Sacrificing because you care, beacuse you love and all you want is them to be happy! Just happy and peaceful!

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Confession
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3 months ago
It's okay to care about everyone and ourselves too!

Hey, did you take care of yourself today? Care: A type of affection, love and concern you show to your beloved ones. And your most beloved one is you, right? Self-care not only means having fresh hygienic healthy food or pampering yourself with expensive clothes or accessories; sometimes it’s all about nurturing, exploring and working on small qualities of yourself and who you are as a wh*le. Sometimes it’s all about prioritizing yourself and also telling no to things which hurt us. We have seen many people around us who care a lot, but sometimes people tend to forget that even they are humans and need to be nurtured and cared the way they do. Sometimes some people don’t expect anything at all but there is always one point in their life where all they need is care and emotional support. For them these small things matter a lot. “CARE” is never a big issue, it’s as simple as the smallest gestures of mankind like “SMILE”. It’s always good that we take care of people and try our best for them. But when it is not responded back we start thinking, “We have given them so much but they don’t deserve it” and we start regretting it. Instead, why can’t we think that “We are able to give it because we have it within us”. Why always focus on how people abuse that? Basically in simple words it’s like “TO CARE WITHOUT EXPECTING IN RETURN”.

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3 months ago
WHY NOT EMBRACE YOUR FEARS AND DIFFERENT ADVENTURES?

I'm saying this because I have experienced this. Self-satisfaction is all about a self-contented feeling or just a phase where we just have a broad smile for the achievements we did. In simpler words, for some people it's “दिल का चैन”! It may sound a very known topic but the feeling is not usual- it's amazing. We have seen people around us who are not satisfied with their work and are hesi*ant to try new things due to fear of rejection. But, I personally feel that you should at least take a step towards it no matter what the result may be. By this you can at least feel content that you did try it. “Don't fear new adventures or else you might just keep lingering around the need of self-satisfaction”

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