I can’t be the only one with this home life Relationship
@chevybuytroy
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I can’t be the only one that goes through this daily at home. I have a feeling my wife likes me miserable. I do everything to please her. She doesn’t work does what she pleases. I get off work at 5pm and if I’m not home by 545 I start getting calls and multiple texts leaving me with no time to myself or even run errands. I have never been unfaithful to her or anyone in that matter. But I’m always getting accused and have to defend myself. I have an adopted child with my first marriage and need to talk to my exwife about him. She has me I an app where I can’t talk to my ex without her seeing. She has even deleted messages from her so I don’t get them. My wife’s 2 children live full time at the house and I can’t discipline them without getting accused of being mean. My son hates coming to my house now cause she is awful to him and has never accepted him. Every night is an argument snout something I’ve did or don’t do or getting home within 30 mins from work. If she asks me to do something I get ridiculed. She complains about the house being messy even though she’s home all day. If I clean I get yelled at for throwing something away and not in the right place. I’m pretty sure she’s been gaslighting me on thing also. So I get yelled at for cleaning or not cleaning either way I go I’m wrong. She has alienated me from all my friends and even my parents. If I’m at my parents within 10 mins I’m getting multiple phone calls to cone home. I am in a deep depression over this and told her I may need a therapist to talk to since I can’t talk to anyone else about my problems or else she gets mad. She rolled her eyes at me and said that was stupid. I’ve talked to her over and over about how I feel and she either doesn’t get it or care. I’m ready to leave but afraid of losing my house even though she has never even paid a payment on it. Nothing is in her bane but sure I’m going to lose everything . I guess at this point I’m so over it I’d rather lose everything then be in my hell. I’d rather be at work then home. Her mom is the secretary at my work so I don’t even know if I’d have a job if I leave her. I’m scared of wat to do but don’t want to keep living like this. As I write this we just fought over me cleaning the mud room. All she wants me to do is sit on the couch with her. I don’t know how much more I can take. She’s making Xmas horrible cause she doesn’t want my family around. I just want this to be over with


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chevybuytroy
Woke up this morning to a fight. Told her oldest son I’d take him to school and he can grab a drink on the way. I planned on leaving at 7:20, needs to be at school by 8 and it’s a 10 min drive to town. At 640 she told me I needed to leave at 7. I said we didn’t need to leave that early cause the school doesn’t unlock there doors till 730. She got ibrantly agitated and told me I had to leave by 7. So, I didn’t argue, we left and got there 15 mins before the doors were unlocked.just little things like thus where I can’t make my on decisions. She then calls me at 745 and proceeded to talk to me as I’m clocking in for work. Said I shouldn’t have to since I was there early but I figured I’d just get started at work. Got mad when I told her I’d talk to her later and hung up on me

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chevybuytroy
Well tonight my son got blamed for changing her Disney plus account password and all the usernames even though he does not have access to it. Or even home to do it. It’s never her boys

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Same night as last comment. Since I’ve been home I’ve heard her complain about the house and doing laundry. Trying to be nice I’ve cleaned the kitchen, made supper, done 3 loads of laundry, and shampooed carpets. It’s 945 and getting nagged that I don’t do laundry right and instead of a thank you for helping I’m getting criticized. She through in my face this morning she asked me to put 2 new smoke detectors up and did that tonight also. I haven’t been rude or complained, just have done what’s she’s asked. I was just told I’m grumpy and need to go to bed. Again, have been nice and just trying to have a good night. After the holidays I think I need to make a plan to leave her. At this point I don’t care if I lose everything as long as I don’t get treated like this anymore. It’s been in my head awhile now to leave but it’s my house that does not have her name on it and has never made a payment on. I’m willing to lose my house to start over and have a life with my son again. I’m giving it till February to not ruin any holidays. I need to get a phone out of her name and start looking into weekly rates on hotels.

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Woke up in the morning, Gabe the kids there meds and let the dogs out. Got the fire started so she could rest. Woke up mad and going off on the kids and then me. We were suppose to go shopping to and leave around 330. Now she’s saying she wants to leave earlier and keeps saying I’ll just go by myself. Keeps saying nobody else is even ready even though the boys and I are dressed and just need to buy shoes on. Today’s going to be a fun day...

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I ended up leaving today. Her mood was horrible to be and blaming me for things that didn’t even makes sense. She angrily told me that I didn’t even tell her good morning this morning and after thinking about it I realized I did tell her. She complained that she couldn’t get ready cause she had to everything else in the house. There was nothing for her to do since I cleaned last night. I couldn’t take it anymore and left for the day. She’s called me multiple times and have 10 messages. I haven’t opened any cause it’s all going to be my fault anyways

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I ended up leaving today. Her mood was horrible to be and blaming me for things that didn’t even makes sense. She angrily told me that I didn’t even tell her good morning this morning and after thinking about it I realized I did tell her. She complained that she couldn’t get ready cause she had to everything else in the house. There was nothing for her to do since I cleaned last night. I couldn’t take it anymore and left for the day. She’s called me multiple times and have 10 messages. I haven’t opened any cause it’s all going to be my fault anyways

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chevybuytroy
I ended up leaving today. Her mood was horrible to be and blaming me for things that didn’t even makes sense. She angrily told me that I didn’t even tell her good morning this morning and after thinking about it I realized I did tell her. She complained that she couldn’t get ready cause she had to everything else in the house. There was nothing for her to do since I cleaned last night. I couldn’t take it anymore and left for the day. She’s called me multiple times and have 10 messages. I haven’t opened any cause it’s all going to be my fault anyways

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chevybuytroy
I ended up leaving today. Her mood was horrible to be and blaming me for things that didn’t even makes sense. She angrily told me that I didn’t even tell her good morning this morning and after thinking about it I realized I did tell her. She complained that she couldn’t get ready cause she had to everything else in the house. There was nothing for her to do since I cleaned last night. I couldn’t take it anymore and left for the day. She’s called me multiple times and have 10 messages. I haven’t opened any cause it’s all going to be my fault anyways

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chevybuytroy
I ended up leaving today. Her mood was horrible to be and blaming me for things that didn’t even makes sense. She angrily told me that I didn’t even tell her good morning this morning and after thinking about it I realized I did tell her. She complained that she couldn’t get ready cause she had to everything else in the house. There was nothing for her to do since I cleaned last night. I couldn’t take it anymore and left for the day. She’s called me multiple times and have 10 messages. I haven’t opened any cause it’s all going to be my fault anyways
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