Often times people answer when asked
Ques: what do you want to eat
Ans-Kuch bhi
Where should we go for outing-
Ans- kahin bhi.
Sounds familiar???
Well, this is so normal to hear, almost everybody says like this. So what's the problem, you would be thinking...
Well, there's no problem in the above case but the problem happens when this kind of pattern in thinking becomes a habit over a period of time. As the famous zen saying goes - the way you do one thing is the way you do everything.
And imagine... when you don't have clarity in thinking and when you have to ask for concrete answers like -
What kind of girl you wish to marry?
What kind of job you want to do?
What kind of house you wish to buy?
What will you do??
And without clarity, whatever you get will be a coincidence , it could be workable or could be a disaster. If it's not workable, begins a chain of blame game.
"What bad karma i had to attract such a boss"
"Why did God give me this kind of husband"? And the list goes on.
As Paretos principle say that 80% of our life depends on 20% decisions we take.
So why not focus clearly on 20% to make lives wonderful by another 80% automatically.
Enlightened Ch*is*ian Gathering (ECG) leader Shepherd Bushiri has denied rape allegations levelled against him by two women, saying the Hawks are intimidating women to lay false charges against him. how disgusting this is and not acceptable.
Increasingly binge-watching shows is becoming a difficult task and so concentrating on complicated plot lines is getting difficult too. This is mostly because at this point, our brains are overworked and troubled, and to concentrate on things requires a lot of patience. Work and the conditions around us have made it impossible for us to keep our anxious thoughts at bay and watching a heavily plotted series talking about real issues must be difficult.
To still feel better and not have to concentrate on plot points one can easily watch a sitcom. A light-hearted show will keep you company and not ask much of you.
This has been the reason why I have been watching One Day At A Time and Schitt's Creek on Netflix. The shows deal with real issues sometimes but its never too heavy and in the long run, they are always just positive and feel good.
If you feel like me, I suggest you watch shows like FRIENDS or HIMYM or Schitt's Creek. They won't ask much of you and they will still make you laugh.
In times like these what's better than a smile on your face.