I’ve never posted here before, so I’m not sure if this is the right place - so please bear with me. My parents have a 25 year age gap, which is making me increasingly uncomfortable. My mum was 17 when I was conceived, and my dad was 42. As I’m around my mothers age now, I get extremely grossed out and nauseated when I think about the fact that my dad was attracted to people my age. My mum was as young as 15 when they met, making my dad 40. It’s so creepy and disgusting! I know other people’s parents have age gaps but I’ve never met anyone whose parents had one like mine - is this a normal feeling to have? Every time I think about it the word ‘pedophile’ comes to mind and I can’t stand it. Is he? I’m sure that’s not normal. I would certainly think a 42 year old man was a creep if not a pedophile if he hit on me. It’s just weird to place that term on my own father. Edit: The term I may have been looking for is ‘ephebophilia’ - a term I didn’t know until it was commented.